{"id":25817,"date":"2020-07-20T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-20T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.saatva.com\/social-media-detox\/"},"modified":"2023-08-30T17:13:51","modified_gmt":"2023-08-30T17:13:51","slug":"social-media-detox","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.saatva.com\/blog\/social-media-detox\/","title":{"rendered":"How Going on a Social Media Detox Changed the Way I Sleep"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I spend a lot of time on&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.saatva.com\/blog\/social-media-and-sleep\/\">social media<\/a>. Not only is it part of my job at Saatva to post on the company&#8217;s social media profiles, but I also use it to keep up with friends and family, see what my favorite celebrities are up to, and connect with other writers in my industry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When the coronavirus pandemic hit the United States in March, I found myself spending even more time on social media than usual\u2014to the detriment of my mental health and my sleep. I would scroll through Twitter for hours reading the news reports of how bad things were getting in New York City, where I live, and all of a sudden it was 1 a.m. and I was completely wired.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After a few months of living (and not really sleeping well) like this, I finally had enough and decided to take a break in June. I went cold turkey and did a week-long social media detox. Here&#8217;s what happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-going-on-a-social-media-detox-affected-my-sleep-and-my-life\">How going on a social media detox affected my sleep\u2014and my life<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>As soon as I deleted Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram from my phone, I immediately felt freer. While I thought it would be difficult to not check in with the world multiple times a day, I quickly realized I wasn&#8217;t missing out on anything. I still texted with the friends and family members I wanted to stay in touch with during my week-long social media break.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During my social media detox, I replaced the time I usually spent checking all of my accounts on my phone\u2014about six hours a day\u2014with other, more&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.saatva.com\/blog\/10-nighttime-activities-help-relax\/\">relaxing activities<\/a>&nbsp;like playing&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.saatva.com\/blog\/animal-crossing-bedroom-design-tips\/\"><em>Animal Crossing<\/em><\/a>, taking virtual dance cardio classes at&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/305fitness.com\/\">305 Fitness<\/a>, and catching up on the last couple of seasons of&nbsp;<em>Real Housewives of New York<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So how did this affect my sleep? Because I was no longer seeing stressful posts on social media, and I had nothing to mindlessly scroll through until the wee hours of the morning, I had a much easier time falling\u2014and staying\u2014asleep. I was also able to get back to a much more reasonable bedtime, around 11:30 p.m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besides the fact that I wasn&#8217;t exposing myself to as much stressful information\u2014I did still read the news, I just didn&#8217;t get it from Twitter\u2014I think part of the reason why I was able to get better sleep was that I wasn&#8217;t being exposed to sleep-disrupting&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.saatva.com\/blog\/blue-light-blocking-glasses-sleep\/\">blue light<\/a>&nbsp;so close to bedtime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Beyond improving my sleep, I felt more focused at work and in life in general. Without the Instagram app tempting me to open it just one more time during the workday, I was able to get more done and get it done more efficiently. Instead of monitoring my Twitter feed while I was watching a new episode of&nbsp;<em>The Bold Typ<\/em><em>e<\/em>, I actually paid attention to the show, and I didn&#8217;t miss out on the small details I normally wouldn&#8217;t have picked up on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With all of my new free time, I&#8217;ll admit that sometimes I felt bored. I kept wondering if I should be doing something, anything, to occupy my time since I&#8217;m someone who usually fills every waking moment with some sort of activity. But it was nice to give myself a mental break and just be able to chill out for a little while each day. (And research shows&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/clok.uclan.ac.uk\/22263\/1\/22263%20Does%2520being%2520bored%2520make%2520us%2520more%2520creativeV2.pdf\">idle time can boost creativity<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Although I&#8217;m back on social media now, I use it differently than I did pre-detox. I no longer have the urge to check my phone during the day, I log off a couple of hours before bedtime to avoid nighttime stress, and I make it a point to be more present while I&#8217;m doing other activities, whether that&#8217;s watching TV, eating dinner, or sitting in the park near my apartment. I&#8217;ve also unfollowed people who stress me out and followed accounts that make me happy\u2014so now when I log onto Instagram, I mostly see recipes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-go-on-a-social-media-detox\">How to go on a social media detox<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>After my break was over, I called up Paige Rechtman, licensed psychotherapist in New York City (who&#8217;s&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/paigerechtman.com\/what-happens-when-you-eliminate-social-media\/\">done a social media detox herself<\/a>), to get some general advice on cutting back on social media.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The good news is, you don&#8217;t need to go on a week- or month-long social media detox to reap the sleep and mental health benefits. Here are some simple guidelines for limiting your time on social media for better sleep and&nbsp;less stress:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Start small.&nbsp;<\/strong>&#8220;Whatever a person is comfortable with is a great start,&#8221; says Rechtman. &#8220;Even if you put your phone away for 10 minutes, that can be a great way to center and ground yourself.&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Have some relaxing replacement activities lined up.&nbsp;<\/strong>&#8220;It&#8217;s a good idea to have other stuff to do,&#8221; says Rechtman. Keep a novel or&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beaumont.org\/health-wellness\/blogs\/health-benefits-of-coloring-for-adults\">adult coloring book<\/a>&nbsp;on hand, for example.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>But don&#8217;t be afraid to be bored.<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8220;If you find that you&#8217;re bored, let yourself be bored and see what comes up for you,&#8221; says Rechtman. &#8220;You can do other activities to distract yourself, but be brave enough to face the boredom and sit in it.&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Set boundaries.&nbsp;<\/strong>&#8220;I recommend putting your phone in another room to charge it at night,&#8221; says Rechtman. She also suggests putting limits on how much time you can spend on each social media platform (there are&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.inc.com\/jeremy-goldman\/6-apps-to-stop-your-smartphone-addiction.html\">apps that can help you do this<\/a>) and unfollowing accounts that make your&nbsp;<a target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.saatva.com\/blog\/sleeping-with-anxiety\/\">anxiety<\/a>&nbsp;worse.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t be too hard on yourself.&nbsp;<\/strong>If you struggle to curb your social media use, that&#8217;s OK\u2014we&#8217;re all addicted to our phones, points out Rechtman. &#8220;If you&#8217;re introducing this new habit of not looking at social media as much, it&#8217;s going to take some time to get used to it,&#8221; she says.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I spend a lot of time on social media. 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