\u201cAt some point between finishing that report for work and pillow fights with the kids, the bedroom should reclaim its purpose for intimacy and bonding,” says Gloria Brame, PhD, an Athens, Georgia-based sex therapist and author of Champions of Pleasure<\/em>. Fortunately, d\u00e9cor goes a long way toward boosting the boudoir factor\u2014without resorting to anything reminiscent of Belle Watling’s Gone with the Wind<\/em> brothel. Read on to discover the best romantic bedroom ideas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Whether you’re ready to fully redo your master suite or simply hope to make a few subtly sexy changes, consider these romantic bedroom decorating tips for heightening your bedroom’s passion potential.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMood lighting is the best investment you can make for romance,” says Brooklyn, New York, interior designer Julia Mack<\/a>. For the most romantic bedroom experience, all bedroom lighting should be on dimmers, with lamps preferable to an overhead fixture. The general rule is three points of illumination: one on either side of the bed and a third across the room. And don’t forget the impact of flickering flames! \u201cEveryone looks good by candlelight,” Mack says, noting that electric versions are just as flattering as real fire (not to mention safer).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Think like Goldilocks when picking paint\u2014nothing too hot, too cool, or too bright. \u201cI like soft spa colors for the bedroom,” says Cynthia Espy, president of Amenities Home Design in Chicago. \u201cThey create a serene setting yet are easily enlivened by lamps or candlelight for a sexy mood.” For a bolder, more dramatic romantic bedroom, Mack prefers dark tones\u2014including black. \u201cTry one black wall, behind the bed,” she suggests. And while it may not scream seduction, a warm neutral may be your best bet: A Travelodge study<\/a> of 2,000 couples found that those with caramel-colored walls had the most sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A barren bedroom is chilly and anonymous, so even a major minimalist may want to add a few flourishes to encourage intimacy, such as framed photos of you and your partner that you may not want to display on the living room mantel or artwork and objects that arouse you somehow (they needn’t be overtly sexual). A mirror\u2014no, not on the ceiling!\u2014brings a bit of sparkle and shine; plus, catching a glimpse of yourselves in the clinches is unequivocally hot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The look of your romantic bedroom may beckon, but it’s the feel that seals the deal. \u201cTexture is key,” says Mack, who opts for thick shaggy rugs, quality cotton sheets (satin is pass\u00e9, not to mention cold in winter), and a chunky, nubby knitted blanket or one that’s faux fur on one side, velvet on the other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cA saggy mattress can actually cause pulled muscles and other back woes<\/a> during sex,” warns Brame\u2014but the best mattress for whoopee is a matter of personal preference. (Here’s some help with choosing the best mattress for sex<\/a>.) Traditional innerspring varieties<\/a> have more bounce so are suited for those who enjoy a springy, energetic romp. Foam mattresses are more about sinking in, taking it slow, and snuggling in the afterglow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When it comes to cushioning, the same guideline that applies to sleep goes for sex: bigger, heftier lovers are better off with a firmer mattress while smaller, slighter couples can go softer. And while adjustable bases<\/a> may be marketed to those who want to work or read in bed, \u201cthey’re a wonderful innovation that can open up all kinds of sensual possibilities for folks who want to experiment with different positions,” Brame says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n An upholstered headboard is another romantic bedroom idea that can comfortably enhance creative lovemaking. And as to pillows, less is more. \u201cOne king-size pillow per person is more than adequate,” says Mack. \u201cA few decorative pillows are fine but a pile of them is old-fashioned and fussy.” A final tip about the bed: Make it! \u201cA messy bed is not inviting,” says Brame. (Here are more reasons to make your bed every morning<\/a>.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n Give your bedroom a romantic makeover with these Saatva products<\/p>\n \n Our flagship luxury mattress is expertly engineered with coil-on-coil construction for durability, a layer of memory foam for enhanced back support, and a cushiony Euro pillow top for extra comfort.<\/p>\n\n\n \n \n Shop Now\n <\/a>\n <\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n \n With weightless, Zero Gravity support, the Saatva Adjustable Base Plus allows you to set your ideal position for sleeping\u2014and living\u2014with one touch of the remote.<\/p>\n\n\n \n \n Shop Now\n <\/a>\n <\/p>\n <\/div>\n <\/div>\n \n A timeless platform bed frame crafted with fine leather. Its refined headboard and luxurious double French seams prove that elegance is all in the simple details.<\/p>\n\n\n Romantic bedroom ideas<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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